“Kindness is my number one attribute in a human being. I’ll put it before any of the things like courage or bravery or generosity or anything else.” ― Roald Dahl
Are you known for your kindness? It’s the hallmark of an incredible personal brand. Helping and supporting others can help them understand who you are and what you stand for. Yet many people mistakenly believe that personal branding is mostly about choosing stylish clothing and memorizing an effective elevator speech. They don’t realize that successful personal branding is less about how you look and more about what you do each day and your bonds with other people. The real power of personal branding lies in demonstrating qualities such as kindness and compassion for others.
Consider the colleague or friend who is always willing to lend a hand or listen. Or the one who tries to help you succeed in your career. Someone who remembers your birthday. Someone who likes to give back by serving as a mentor to young adults. Or the person who is a big cheerleader for their friends and co-workers, always celebrating the successes of others. Someone willing to go out of their way to support others are well on their way to developing an effective brand built around the qualities that people admire most. Do people trust you and do you add value to their lives? Do you help people even when it’s inconvenient? What do you want people to think of when they think of you? How would you like them to describe you when you’re not around? So many people in the world today are trying to sell things. Instead, look for ways you can add value to those around you.
To develop a personal brand, you’ll want to select one quality or trait you want to improve upon or develop. Step 2 is brainstorming some of the ways you can foster this trait and create a plan of action. You’ll then want to spend the next 30 days actively seeking opportunities to put your plan into action before reassessing and adjusting your branding strategy. For example, if you want to improve your ability to express gratitude, you might purchase a pack of thank you cards. Every day, think of someone new who you’d like to express gratitude toward and write them a quick note. Or pick up the phone and let someone know how much you appreciate them. Send someone an encouraging note. Make sure you’re letting your co-workers/employees/team members know when they have done an awesome job. Be sincere. Over time, you’ll find that genuine gratitude will become part of your everyday actions.
If you want to do a better job connecting with and supporting other people, look for ways all around you to lend a helping hand. Consider helping someone in your personal or work life who has struggled; look for ways to mentor people just starting out in your industry or career path or find a new way to volunteer your time and to support others in your community.
Sometimes it seems that qualities such as gratitude and kindness do not yield a reliable payback. Or that no one notices or acknowledges your help. But rest assured that qualities such as compassion and kindness are noticed — and that demonstrating them to others can have a larger effect on your life than you have ever imagined.